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Choleric Strengths
The Extrovert | The Doer | The Optimist (a) The Choleric's Emotions ● Born leader ● Dynamic and active ● Compulsive need for change ● Must correct wrongs ● Strong-willed and decisive ● Unemotional ● Not easily discouraged ● Independent and self sufficient ● Exudes confidence ● Can run anything (b) The Choleric As A Parent ● Exerts sound leadership ● Establishes Goals ● Motivates family to action ● Knows the right answer ● Organizes household (c) The Choleric At Work ● Goal oriented ● Sees the whole picture ● Organizes well ● Seeks practical solutions ● Moves quickly to action ● Delegates work ● Insists on production ● Makes the goal ● Stimulates activity ● Thrives on opposition (d) The Choleric As a Friend ● Has little need for friends ● Will work for group activity ● Will lead and organize ● Is usually right ● Excels in emergencies |
Weaknesses of a Choleric
The Extrovert | The Doer | The Optimist (a) The Choleric's Emotions ● Bossy ● Impatient ● Quick-tempered ● Can't Relax ● Cannot take a joke about self ● Too impetuous ● Enjoys controversy and arguments ● Won't give up when loosing ● Comes on too strong ● Inflexible ● Is not complimentary ● Dislikes tears and emotions ● Is unsympathetic (b) The Choleric As A Parent ● Tends to over dominate ● Too busy for family ● Gives answers too quickly ● Impatient with poor performance ● Won't let children relax ● May send them into depression (c) The Choleric At Work ● Little tolerance for mistakes ● Doesn't analyze details ● Bored by trivia ● May make rash decisions ● May be rude or tactless ● Manipulates people ● Demanding of others ● End justifies the means ● Work may become his god ● Demands loyalty in the ranks (d) The Choleric As a Friend ● Tends to use people ● Dominates others ● Knows everything ● Decides for others ● Can do everything better ● Is too independent ● Possessive of friends and mate ● Can't say, "I'm Sorry" ● May be right, but unpopular |
Strengths of a Sanguine
The Extrovert | The Talker | The Optimist (a) The Sanguine's Emotions ● Appealing personality ● Talkative, Storyteller ● Life of the Party ● Good sense of humor ● Memory for color ● Physically holds on to listener ● Emotional and demonstrative ● Enthusiastic and expressive ● Cheerful and bubbling over ● Curious ● Good on stage ● Wide-eyed and innocent ● Lives in the present ● Changeable disposition ● Sincere at heart ● Always a child (b) The Sanguine As A Parent ● Makes Home Fun ● Is liked by children's friends ● Turns disaster into humor ● Is the circus master (c) The Sanguine At Work ● Volunteers for Jobs ● Thinks up new activities ● Looks great on the Surface ● Creative and colorful ● Has energy and enthusiasm ● Starts in a flashy way ● Inspires others to join ● Charms others to work (d) The Sanguine As a Friend ● Makes friends easily ● Loves People ● Thrives on compliments ● Seems exciting ● Envied by others ● Doesn't hold grudges ● Apologizes quickly ● Prevents dull moments ● Likes spontaneous activities |
Weaknesses of a Sanguine
The Extrovert | The Talker | The Optimist (a) The Sanguine's Emotions ● Compulsive talker ● Exaggerates and elaborates ● Dwells on trivia ● Can't remember names ● Scares others off ● Too happy for some ● Has restless energy ● Egotistical ● Blusters and complains ● Naive, gets taken in ● Has loud voice and laugh ● Controlled by circumstances ● Gets angry easily ● Seems phony to some ● Never Grows Up (b) The Sanguine As A Parent ● Keeps home in a frenzy ● Forgets children's appointments ● Disorganized ● Doesn't listen to the whole story (c) The Sanguine At Work ● Would rather talk ● forgets obligations ● Doesn't follow through ● Confidence fades fast ● Undisciplined ● Priorities out of order ● Decides by feelings ● Easily distracted ● Wastes time talking (d) The Sanguine As a Friend ● Hates to be alone ● Needs to be center stage ● Wants to be popular ● Looks for credit ● Dominates conversations ● Interrupts and doesn't listen ● Answers for others ● Fickle and forgetful ● Makes excuses ● Repeats stories |
Strengths of a Melancholy
The Introvert | The Thinker | The Pessimist (a) The Melancholy's Emotions ● Deep and thoughtfully ● Analytical ● Serious and purposeful ● Genius prone ● Talented and creative ● Artistic or musical ● Philosophical and poetic ● Appreciative of beauty ● Sensitive to others ● Self-sacrificing ● Conscientious ● Idealistic (b) The Melancholy As A Parent ● Sets high standards ● Wants everything done right ● Keeps home in good order ● Picks up after children ● Sacrifices own will for others ● Encourages scholarship and talent (c) The Melancholy At Work ● Schedule oriented ● Perfectionist, high standards ● Detail conscious ● Persistent and thorough ● Orderly and organized ● Neat and tidy ● Economical ● Sees the problems ● Finds creative solutions ● Needs to finish what he starts ● Likes charts, graphs, figures, lists (d) The Melancholy As a Friend ● Makes friends cautiously ● Content to stay in background ● Avoids causing attention ● Faithful and devoted ● Will listen to complaints ● Can solve other's problems ● Deep concern for other people ● Moved to tears with compassion ● Seeks ideal mate |
Weakness of a Melancholy
The Introvert | The Thinker | The Pessimist (a) The Melancholy's Emotions ● Remembers the negatives ● Moody and depressed ● Enjoys being hurt ● Has false humility ● Off in another world ● Low self-image ● Has selective hearing ● Self-centered ● Too introspective ● Guilt feelings ● Persecution complex ● Tends to hypochondria (b) The Melancholy As A Parent ● Puts goals beyond reach ● May discourage children ● May be too meticulous ● Becomes martyr ● Sulks over disagreements ● Puts guilt upon children (c) The Melancholy At Work ● Not people oriented ● Depressed over imperfections ● Chooses difficult work ● Hesitant to start projects ● Spends too much time planning ● Prefers analysis to work ● Self-deprecating ● Hard to please ● Standards often too high ● Deep need for approval (d) The Melancholy As a Friend ● Lives through others ● Insecure socially ● Withdrawn and remote ● Critical of others ● Holds back affections ● Dislikes those in opposition ● Suspicious of people ● Antagonistic and vengeful ● Unforgiving ● Full of contradictions ● Skeptical of compliments |
Strengths of a Phlegmatic
The Introvert | The Watcher | The Pessimist (a) The Phlegmatic’s Emotions ● Low-key personality ● Easy-going and relaxed ● Calm, cool and collected ● Patient and well-balanced ● Consistent life ● Quiet, but witty ● Sympathetic and kind ● Keeps emotions hidden ● Happily reconciled to life ● All-purpose person (b) The Phlegmatic As A Parent ● Makes a good parent ● Takes time for the children ● Is not in a hurry ● Can take the good with the bad ● Doesn’t get upset easily (c) The Phlegmatic At Work ● Competent and steady ● Peaceful and agreeable ● Has administrative ability ● Mediates problems ● Avoids conflicts ● Good under pressure ● Finds the easy way (d) The Phlegmatic As a Friend ● Easy to get along with ● Pleasant and enjoyable ● Inoffensive ● Good listener ● Dry sense of humor ● Enjoys watching people ● Has many friends ● Has compassion and concern |
Weaknesses of a Phlegmatic
The Introvert | The Watcher | The Pessimist (a) The Phlegmatic’s Emotions ● Unenthusiastic ● Fearful and worried ● Indecisive ● Avoids responsibility ● Quiet will of iron ● Selfish ● Too shy and reticent ● Too compromising ● Self-righteous (b) The Phlegmatic As A Parent ● Lax on discipline ● Doesn’t organize home ● Takes life too easy (c) The Phlegmatic At Work ● Not goal oriented ● Lacks self motivation ● Hard to get moving ● Resents being pushed ● Lazy and careless ● Discourages others ● Would rather watch (d) The Phlegmatic As a Friend ● Dampens enthusiasm ● Stays uninvolved ● Is not exciting ● Indifferent to plans ● Judges others ● Sarcastic and teasing ● Resists change |